The following dating article gives ten guidelines for asking dates out. It purports simple procedures any man can follow to have more success with women. This dating article, guidelines for asking dates out, discusses not just how to ask out a woman, but what to do on a first date and how to go about being on a first date.
The following is a list of ideals males should have when asking a female date out. They focus on the correct timing for the date-ask.
1. Be reasonable about Rejection
As a male you have to realize that not all women are going to be agreeable to going out on a date. If a woman has a good reason to say no, you just have to accept it. Don’t fight her excuses if she says no, just accept it. Don’t get annoyed if she says no, smile!
2. Offer Alternative Days
When asking for a date there is always a good chance that she will be busy on one night, and free on another. Some good dating advice is to offer alternative days. This theory is well publicised in Ross Jeffries Speed Secution, where he will offer to pick her up on Monday at 6 or Tuesday at 8. You should do the same
3. Sound Busy Yourself
This theory is heavily publicised in David Deangelo’s Double Your Dating, where he will stipulate that sounding busy is attractive. You should do the same. It just makes the game so much more compelling
4. Accept She May Be Late
If you are arranging a date, hang about for a while if you think she is going to be late. It’s a good idea to have her mobile number on hand for your date, so she can check where she is.
5. Choose A Weeknight For The First Date
The first date should be easy and carefree. A weeknight is better than a weekend because it puts less pressure on the date to do something sexual. Weekend dates typically are for more intimate encounters, hence why Saturday night is colloquially called "root night". Weeknight first dates work better because it gives you a shorter amount of time to say you’ve had a first date and offers an easier out if it’s not going very well.
6. Time Your Moment’s
When you’re going for a date in a bar or a nightclub. Timing is critical. You don’t want to approach a date in a bar or nightclub when she is dancing with another man. You have to wait for that time when an opening becomes obvious. Watch for eye contact.
7. Don’t Fear The Rejection
The more times you ask out women on dates the more confident you will become about it. Never be scared of asking out a woman on a date and don’t fear her saying no.
8. Watch For Her Solitude
This theory is stipulated in The Survey Method. It basically means waiting for a woman to be by herself for maximum likelyhood of an acceptance by her. Sure approaching sets can have it’s advantages, but I always find it wasier when a girl is by herself, which is why bars and nightclubs are more difficult places than anywhere else.
9. Figure Out Your Date’s Life
When you are dating somebody, it is important to have a grasp of what her life is like. Try and figure out her living conditions, transport conditions and relationship conditions. only try and figure out a date’s circumstances if she is know to you already.
10. Timing For Asking Out A Woman On A Date
Work out the best moments to ask somebody out. This comes with experience of asking out many women. A rule of thumb is don't ask her out when she is clearly busy or stressed or unhappy or not well.
Here, at The Survey Method, we make it easy for guys to ask girls out on dates, by creating a scenario where they pick up lots of women and have a strong probability that they will start saying yes.
Jonathan Skywalker
